Thursday, January 13, 2011

Post# 6, 2011

THINK WIN-WIN
The Stuff That Life Is Made Of Have an everyone-can-win attitude.
Thinking win-win is a frame of mind and heart that seeks mutual benefit and is based on mutual respect in all interactions. It’s not about thinking selfishly (win-lose) or like a martyr (lose-win). In our work and family life, members think interdependently -- in terms of “we,” not “me.” Thinking win-win encourages conflict resolution and helps individuals seek mutually beneficial solutions. It’s sharing information, power, recognition, and rewards.

1- What does this say? (1-2 sentences)
2- What does this mean (2-3 sentences)
3- Why does it matter or how can you apply this to your life? (1-2 paragraphs)

23 comments:

  1. 1).Say says don't be negative.
    2).Believe in every one.Don't be negative.
    3).This means not to discourage anyone.you must faith in other people.have faith in you're self.believe in others like how you would want them to believe in you.

    You can apply this to you're life by having faith in everyone.have faith with you're family.Have faith with you're friends. think that every one can win and don't be negative.

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  2. 1) this says you have to have a win win attitude.
    2) this means you have to think positive. thinking positive is the way to receive positive resullts.
    3) this matters because i cant have a negative out look on things. i have to think unselfishly. i have to have a positive win win out look on things. with that positive out look will bring positive winning situations to my life. i believe this is true

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  3. To always think win-win. What it means is that you should not be selfish on win-lose. Thinking win-win you can solve problems so everyone can win and also be happy. It matters because people of this year are sore losers they and if your a winner you intend to make others feel bad that they lost and that's no winner. You have to work with others so you can compromise with friends or family and everyone can win. This Kind of win-win attitude can build your self esteem and to help work with others. I can apply this to my life as thinking I can win and to work with other. So I can share my knowledge and others can share with me so no one is a loser.

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  4. 1. this says that people should think in all perspectives but when it comes down to the action they must choose win-win.
    2.well this means that win-win thinking makes a person smarter because they know where they're going at and they are confident about it.

    well this usually is something that i think is like a noble person. i have no big projects right now that include Win-Win but the small situations, like fighting with my sister and then thinking over about how a mature person would deal with it i have a better concept of to act. therefore i say okay well we both can do this and it's going to be convenient for us. this is some type of win-win that is used every day and works fairly fine. it also sharpens your skills when you come face to face with greater feats.

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  5. 1. This says that you should always think win-win, and not losing you should always count what you did as an accomplishment

    2. This means that you should share you award/ accomplishments with family. They might want to celebrate and be proud with you.

    3. I can apply this to my life because usually I just say "i" instead of saying "us". Because I feel that it is my accomplishment. But, I should say us because if I weren't for my family I wouldn't have accomplished my goal . They make me who I am today. But, from now on I will say "us" because they helped me be he person I am. :)

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  6. I think that you need to always need to have a winning attitude.If your always like aww were gonna lose their better than us then your never going to win.That's why you need always need to have a winning attitude.I have experienced this wen my friends had said oh this team is hard their gonna smash us because were wack. What i told him was that he just jinks it for us because you always have a negative attitude.Then another time when we were gonna play a unbeatable team i thought postive and said that we could beat them and we did beat them.
    So never think negative because of how the team looks just because they look big and tall and all muscular that doesnt mean that your gonna lose because every team has their weakness.

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  7. this say like always think win win win have that attitude.this mean like you should not be selfishly or martyr(lose,win,win,lose)if you just always think win you will always be a winner i guess.i can a apply this to my life because i should started thinking like that a maybe i will be a winner. and it matter because you should think good stuff i guess

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  8. 1. This says that you should have an win-win or everyone can win attitude and not be selfish or inconsiderate of other an there success.
    2. This means that not everyone has the win win attitude but there also the time in life to have a change in heart and/or mind. This also means that instead of doubting people we should have and everyone wins attitude.
    3. This matters because you cant have a win- loose attitude and think that you or someone else will always succeed. This also matters because having an everyone win attitude in mind , helps you succeed in life and it gives you a chance to mae other feel the confidence and success needed.

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  9. 1. This post says that you should always think about winning but not in a selfish way. Think about others not only yourself.
    2. This post means that you should always have a positive attitude towards things. Don't be a negative person think about winning not in a selfish way though.
    3. This quote matters because this is how everyone should be. Everyone should think they can win, they should have a "everyone-can-win-attitude". You need to think about others not only yourself. I can apply this to my life by having a positive attitude. By thinking of others not only myself. This would make me a better person, it would improve me.

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  10. 1) It says that win or loose you will always be a winner in your own way and everyone else too.
    2) It means that you shouldn't be selfish and think the whole world revolves around you when you win or when you loose either. Think positive and know that you and the other person are winners.
    3) It matters because when people win they take all the glory for it and make the other people feel bad and when people loose they feel like the whole world went down on them but its not that you win one way or another. It also matters because people do bad things when they loose but they shouldn't because there is always another chance. I can apply it to my life by when we play soccer and we loose I should have a winners perspective because there is times when we win and when we loose. We also shouldn't make the other team feel bad when we win. We should all have a winners point of view.

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  11. -This post says that don't always think about you're wins, because there is no I TEAM!
    -This means that if you plan on making in life then you have to be open minded and ready and willing to go, thinking positive about what is is that you want to accomplish. However you can not expect to only have an affect on you, everything you do has a say so in someone else life. Just because you feel as though you can get an A+ on your assignment does not mean you cant help the next person be as successful as you have become.
    -There is no way that you can wake up one morning and just say "I'm not worried about anyone else today... I'm going to go to class, do all of my work, and then be extra loud when I start my next assignment, because I'm BIG SH*T and I got it like that."- NOT AT ALL. That type of mentality gets you no where, gets you no luck with anyone. People will not be willing to help anyone who has a stuck up attitude about life and who doesn't appreciate anything that they are given.
    -BEING RUDE & OBNOXIOUS, WONDERING WHAT I CAN ACCOMPLISH FROM GAINING POINTS WITH MY HAPPINESS, CAN BE THE SANITY OF ANOTHER PERSONS STATE OF MIND.

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  12. 1. This says win or loose you will still be a winner regardless.

    2. This means if you loose or win you still is a winner. You will always good look at like a winner. Most of all you will be a winner in your own way.

    3. The reason why it matters is because if you look at your self as a winner then you giving your self confidence. When you have confidence then what competitive thing you do you just might win it even if you lose the last thing you did. If the other person wins still consider your self as a winner and never let someone get the best of you. When you think of your self as a looser then what ever you do, you want do no good at it!

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  13. 1. This says that if you lose or win everyone will still be a winner in their own way.
    2. This means that everyone should have a can win attitude, thinking that you can win will put help all your problems. Thinking positive will give you better hopes.
    3. This matters because everyone should think more positive on things. They have to have confidence in their selves, don't be negative. I can apply this to my life because I always have a negative idea on things. If I would at least try to have an everyone can win attitude everything would be better.

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  14. Life isn't about winning or losing with a positive attitude your chances are high for much success thinking positive is the key to achieve. Always think win win and feel good about it do not judge it just trust it nobody can tell you that your a failure because your not you are the only person that decides your own destiny.

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  15. 1]To not have a negetive attitude.
    2].Just because you can't do something does not mean you can do two thing.You can do two thing at the same time you just got to find the way.
    3].This matters because you have to have a good attitude in life.Have a good attitude in life so good thing can happen.I can apply this to my life by having good attitude.Always try my best i life

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  16. This is saying have an everyone can win attitude.

    This means don't think so selfishly be a teammate. When you on the court you can't play defense by yourself you need your team. You can't think about you winning the game, everything in life can't be done by yourself.

    This applies to my life because I always tend to do things by myself. I feel like I can work better doing things on my own. Also thats one of my habits if something is wrong or I have bad grades I tend to do it myslf thats just the way I am and I can't help it.

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  17. 1) I think that this is saying that never think with your self but think as a group.
    2) This means that always think positive and never negative even though you might lose sometimes.
    3) This matters because it is telling us how important it is to work as a group and when your working only think positive like if not everything is difficult. Its true a lot of thing will be really difficult but even so just think positive just put faith in your self and in your group which will help you more on your strategy.

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  18. 1.This quote says that everyone can win at something in life.
    2.This quote means don't be selfish in life and try to beat people at everything even when you can't.Also even if you win or lose at something don't be selfish.
    3.This matters in life because when you beat somebody at something you don't try to act all stuck up like your the best because if you lose they wont do the same to you.And if you beat somebody at something you teach them the mistakes they did so they can get better at it next time.And don't always try an beat people at something you no you can't win in.

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  19. It says that you shouldn't think only about winning.

    This means that you should work together together like a family.Also you should think about others not only about you.

    This maters because if you work together as a team you can accomplish more things than to work by your self.Also to not only worry about you because others might need your help. If the only thing you think about is winning you just stress your self. When you could be doing something that would help you win. Life is not only about accomplishing many things.It is also about helping others that need your help. You never know when you might need someones help.

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  20. I think that this say that you have to think that you can win to win and that everybody can be a winner if that try they best at it.
    I think that all of this mean you have to think to win and it is not always about winning so if you lose it's okay this try agent.
    This matter because the power of winning is that you always got to think that you going to win. Like be for my football games i lest to my music to get me punt up, and say in my mind that we are going to win. Some times we win and some times we lows but it don't matter as long as we try.

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  21. The quote is saying everybody has an win-win spirit.
    Dont be negitive go for the positive charge.When it comes to making decisions make them among others instead of just keeping to yourself.You can t do everything yourself, its always better to have a partner in crime with you to help you with the decisions positive or negative. Dont be egoista and selfish.
    I can apply this to my life because i tend to isolate my self from others. I like keeping to myself cause i don't have to worry bout some messy stuff.I have a win-win attitude so i think of the best that can come out of it because thinking the worst would only cause a negative impact.
    -----Jassss`Mineeee 1-13 Birthday Giirl !!!

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  22. I know what you are talking about.The main thing I understand I have to have a win win attitude.That will inspire to think the same about there selves.I even get inspired by little kids opinion.This even gets me prouder of what people does to change from last year to this year.

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  23. 1.its trying to say you aint going to always win you will take a lost that part of life.
    2.it means you will win only some times not every time.
    it some thing that teaches you right from wrong

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